Why i hate dating sites
Unless you’ve had some form of the relationship talk, don’t be so quick to cut ties with other potential dates. Here’s one of the harsh truths about online dating: it’s a numbers game.
The people who of time feeling like you’re shouting out into the void or tossing off messages in bottles only to watch them disappear over the horizon without any hope of a response.
Look, there are untold numbers of reasons why people don’t respond to online dating messages…
and they don’t necessarily have anything to do with never know.
I’m a big believer in efficiency when it comes to dating. Y’see, online dating can seem for folks, especially people who have a touch of approach anxiety or hate the bar and club scene but don’t necessarily want to try hitting up strangers at Barnes and Noble.
It’s one thing when you’re meeting women in person – unless you’re a graduate of the Lando Calrissian Player School, then you’re only going to be flirting with one woman at a time. Even if someone seems perfect on paper, you have no idea how well you’re going to work out in person… Even two or three dates isn’t enough to preclude things not working out.
I’ve used a longer one in my day, but over the years, I’ve streamlined it down even further.
The structure is simple: Greeting, a little about what it is about them from their profile that you like, a question to prompt a response, a little bit about you, and then “I hope to talk to you soon.” Two or three lines for each section. But I have to know: what’s your ultimate escape from the world when you need a release? I’m always looking for a potential partner in crime…
Why do all of that when you can meet women without leaving your house?
Flirt to your heart’s content without even bothering to get dressed!